Comparisons of the hazards of middle school students phenomenon

 Li Jiwen

our students to the school of life is a small community, it must also be a large social impact. Today we want to explore the comparisons is especially so. Comparisons of the phenomenon in all classes in each of our students who have different levels of existence. Modern High School Students seriously impede the formation of personality psychology and health. Comparisons is a very good atmosphere, it is not than to learn than hard work, than the culture of quality, than the unity and fraternity, but Bianzhaofaer than eating, than to wear than the dress. With the social development and people's living standards, comparisons of the wind this bad trend seems to be getting worse, cause for concern. As a middle school student, we need to understand this phenomenon. The following comparisons I explain the phenomenon from the four middle school students the dangers.

one, the comparisons

manifestations of the phenomenon than eating one. This time you eat McDonald's, next time I eat KFC chicken, you eat one, I ate twice. One dollar you drink mineral water, I drink ice tea triple. If things continue this vicious cycle, parents to live on less than one month spent a week all. Far beyond a high school student and the general affordability of the family. So to borrow money to students everywhere. But after all, is to borrow money to repay, over time the development is to steal, as a moral corruption of the students. This phenomenon is occurring among the students, and finally have a teacher to deal with, parents to pay. Harmful to themselves, harmful to families.

The second is more than dress. Today's students can be said to be famous from head to toe fully armed, wearing a In fact, this brand-name and the identity and age of our students is very consistent, brand-name in the body can easily provoke envy of others, students body grow faster this year, next year can not wear the clothes, the waste is enormous.

have occurred in a class such a thing. One family was not very good students, the mother in a factory back-workers, his father working in the field, but suddenly she was wearing designer clothes. Asked why she admitted that vanity at play. This is the general economic conditions, the family name of a girl, she also felt that clothes are too expensive. But she felt the tide if you do not keep up with the brand name is too outdated, but when she appears in a brand name among the students, he poured himself uncomfortable.

three than stylish. Many students have cell phones, and is a more than a fashion, a more than a high-end. I understand that many students are not entirely easy to fancy phones, more importantly, because they have a stylish phone. Not to call, more is used to do mp3 and mp4,cheap UGG boots, more serious is used as a tool for cheating. There will be hair dyed flowers, thinking smart.

four than ostentation. Pomp than the main birthday, seating three hundred students spent a birthday, please the table, seven or eight students to eat a meal; John Doe birthday to you two tables of students, even after eating and drinking asking the students to sing karaoke OK; Wang birthday five students, even more incredible, and anyway, who do not want to lose to who. In fact, not to celebrate his birthday should be grateful to parents for the upbringing of grace. Special thanks to his mother on this day will take you to the world.

five than fun. The main task is to learn students. But many people are always playing with words first. Compared with the cafes, to disco than the over the last karaoke bars. Also, the ratio of travel, you go to Wudang Mountain, I went to Zhangjiajie, Zhangjiajie you go, I went to Jiuzhaigou, you go to Jiuzhaigou, I went to Xin Matai, anyway, certainly better than a win. Last unbearable weight of their own parents.

comparisons there are many manifestations of the phenomenon, these are the five forms of secondary school students. There is also a more absurd comparisons --- sleeping pills. Why is there such a phenomenon, following from the psychological point of view we analyze.

Second, comparisons of the psychological phenomenon of

psychology that any person has a certain psychological basis of behavior, comparisons as well. The ratio is almost instinctive human activity, people are constantly comparing yourself with others in the process of understanding of their own. Also in comparison with others in the process to continue moving forward. For young students, the ratio is indispensable and inevitable, and happens all the time around us. But how to make this more than point to the positive aspects and avoid the negative effects of them, which we must think about each student and understand the issue, but also each of our duties and obligations of a teacher.

psychological comparisons usually a Students in the special stage of life, physical rapid development of a new thing around naturally curious, since the shortcomings of thinking, often making the wrong choice. If not properly guided, will be gradually inflated vanity, offset the value of psychology, will inevitably lead to the lack of rational blind comparisons.

psychology, secondary education is an important period for personality development. This process is essentially the process of individual reflection of social reality. In the process of formation and perfection have extensive contacts with people and society. A lot of good and bad information the students will continuously enter the brain, and at the crossroads of high school students often lack the right judgments and choice, and curious to be the first need. Comparisons of the wind in society is bound to their psychological impact. Many stars show the community as a model student comparisons. So some students spent their hair dyed, some students dug a few holes good pair of jeans. So is the herd mentality led to a large extent the competitive high school students is one important reason.